If you're raising a child who has ADHD, you probably spend a lot of time focusing on his weak points - intentionally or not. There's nothing wrong with trying to work on your child's impulsivity or lack of focus - in fact, it's important for parents to do so. But focusing too intently on your child's shortcomings may be doing a number on his self-esteem. How can you keep him believing in himself while also respecting the rules? Start by using the positive parenting techniques in this video.